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Message # 4875.1.3 Subject: psychoanalysis... Date: Wed 23/07/03 02:10:27 GMT Name: S Email: stiltonse@yahoo.com |
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Well, long story short. It is a fetish and as such a sort of replacement of the original object of desire. It is a transitional object that has "survived" in a genital context. It could probably be described as an anal fixation (i.e. not excrement, but the phase in a childs life where the theme of "control" (to lose or to gain) is the greatest evolutionary task) Ergo: subtext to what excites us, and at the core of the matter, is the _loss_ of control. (probably why business suits etc are so popular...) Sexuality no longer possible to control. Desire beyond control (ergo, limitless love). Any bells ringing, you dawgs? ;-) |
In reply to Message (4875.1) Re: where did it come from our interest?
By the hobby psychotherapist - Mon 21/07/03 05:03:59 GMT When I was a child I didnīt want to wear t-shirts to protect my body from the sun. I began to cry when I got partly wet. It seemed embarrassing to me to get wet while others are watching. If that was your case, too, it could be a sexual experience to us, because we do something our EGO has prohibited from wetting us.
I think itīs a very logical explaination, isnīt it? |
In reply to Message (4875) where did it come from our interest?
By Mathew - Mon 21/07/03 04:17:22 GMT Im sure this has been asked before but why do we find wet so exciting?Like most here it was as a kid I found it strangely exciting then sexual as I reached teens,why or what causes it,why is such a somple thing as getting clothes wet so hot?To non wetlook people wading clothed is somthing they would do without any sexual overtones but for me and others so erotic.My wife reluctantly has occasional baths fully clothed for me but does not find it arousing,someone pleeeeeeese explain. |
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