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Message # 20650.4.2.1

Subject: Re: Question for MK

Date: Sun 05/02/06 20:45:00 GMT

Name: MK

Email: wamtec@compuserve.com

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I am not qualified to speak as a Pyschologist. My definitions were merely taken from the dictionary definitions.

I would say that your situation is pretty common among wetlook fans. And again...I have no hard data (no pun intended) on that. I am purely a sponge who has been chatting to thousands of wet fans over the last 15 years, and many of them tell me about their own personal situations....so I am merely a data-gatherer...not a shrink.

I am an "in-mate" in the same asylum where the rest of us are...ha ha.

Besides...there is nothing wrong with being a fetishist....Elvis Presley had a fetish for peanut and jelly sandwiches...ha ha

Probably the best expert I know who can speak on this whole subject is my longtime friend RM from FL...whom Wetfan and I have known for many years...and he is not only a wetlook fan....but is a Doctor with his own practice in psychology.....so he is trained to answer such matters...I am not.

What I can say though...is that a lot of the common myths (old wives tales) are not true....i.e some people like Freud use to say that such conditions as we have...are brought on by traumas during childhood...and it has often been said that wetlook can be traced back to bed-wetting as a child....and thats a crock.....cos I never had a bed-wetting problem as a child...yet I can remember being turned on by wet girls since I was 6-7 years old and my mother first took me to the beach. That theory is about as ridiculous as some of the Victorians who used to say that The Elephant man was born that way...cos his mother was scared to death during her pregnancy by Elephants...ha ha.

Who knows why we are what we are. Do gay people have a choice in life.....no...they have to live with their interests in the same way we have to deal with our pecadillos.

The way I look at life....life is a deck of cards....and you are dealt a hand...and you have to make the best out of the hand you are dealt with.

....but when it comes to your partner.....you can probably make things work better....if you reveal your cards to your partner. I have been married for 25 years as of this year....and it has worked for me. My wife is not really a wetlook fan herself....but she has been very understanding for 25 years. All of my friends in the wetlook world who are married or with long time girlfriends...are in the same kind of situation....thats the best you can hope for.

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Question for MK

By Wet Guy - Sun 05/02/06 13:41:23 GMT

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MK - so what catagory do I fall into, in that I can achieve an erection and have sex without wetlook involved, but usually I am fantasizing about the woman I am with in a wetlook situation?

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Re: slight problem

By MK - wamtec@compuserve.com Sun 05/02/06 11:45:09 GMT

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Then defacto....you could be as many wetlook fans are....i.e. a "fetishist".

The definition of a fetishist....is somebody who worships an object (or subject matter) and is unable to achieve orgasm unless he (or she) is engaging in the fetish he worships.

Whether you can or cannot achieve orgasm...with or without wetlook....is literally what defines who you are...in terms of the wetlook world....i.e. there are some who can enjoy straight sex without wetlook being involved...and wetlook is merely an extra thing that you can take it or leave it...and it makes life more interesting. If that is you...then you are a wetlook "hobbyist".

A true fetishist is somebody who is unable to achieve orgasm unless he is worshipping his fetish...and so those folks who cannot achieve orgasm without wetlook being involved...are true fetishists.

I am not "Clement Freud"....these are just dictionary definitions of what fetishists are.

Basically...we are a community that is comprized of fetishists and hobbyists....and we just have to accept who we are....because there is nothing any of us can do to change our mindsets....unless we have a lobotomy.

For example.....as we speak...80% of Americans on this Superbowl day today...are either excited about the Superbowl football game....or they are excited about "The Lingerie Bowl" game where 2 teams of ladies will be playing football dressed up in Victoria's Secret underwear today.....and no matter how hard I try...I cannot get excited watching American Football...and I cannot get excited watching women play football in their underwear either.....I am stuck with the silly fetishes inside my demented little head....and the ONLY thing that could get me excited about a football game....is if somebody took the tub of gatorade...and poured it over the Cheerleaders....ha ha

Sooner or later....you should tell your girlfriend what turns you on......and likewise....you have to ask her what turns her on too....cos one way relationships are not going to work.

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slight problem

By wetlooker for a long time - Sun 05/02/06 06:04:26 GMT

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recently, my girlfriend offered to have sex with me, i am 19 and i could not seem to be able to "get it up." just wondering if anyone else has encountered similar problems? and if so can any one help me out with some advice.

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