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Message # 50277.3 Subject: Why hide? Date: Mon 16/05/11 07:05:43 GMT Name: Anonymous |
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The best thing is, indeed, not to worry too much about meanings of other people, ant true friends donīt give a penny on how you go swimming. My too best friends know about my favourite way getting wet, even my parents and my sister (since I was 6 or 7 years old, now Iīm 32, btw.) and they never say a single word about that. Maybe because it is not that big deal for them, they like to swim totally naked, I like swimming clothed, so what? When I met my girlfriend, after a few days I told her I am going to go to a beachparty in Borgentreich the next weekend, so she asked what that is all about, and why I would drive 500 kilometers to go to a beachparty. So I told her that I like swimming with my clothes on, and I like watching other people doing it, and itīs great fun and sometimes a little more, and I donīt know why it is that way and why me but it is how it is and guess what? She absolutely wanted to join me. When we drove there, on the motorway I told her about my wetlook"career", and about fountains, hot tubs, lakes and so on and that I was afraid she could think Iīm weird, But she didnīt. We had great fun at the beachparty and she loves me... (Sometimes we have a bath together, then itīs great and something special)
I think the best way to be accepted is to be honest in the first place, and then to make not that big deal about. Go swimming, have a shower or whatever, but donīt stress the people around you, just keep yourself and normal and you will see, everything is totally easy. Thereīs no need to try to convince people or something. If they join you in the pool, the better, but if they prefer swimwear, so what. Donīt hide, just splash around and have fun. |
In reply to Message (50277) Getting wet when company is over
By WC - wetcasual@live.com Sun 15/05/11 11:25:34 GMT Hello all,
I've always had a difficult time "opening up" to friends that come over to swim at our house about my life long passion for anything and everything wetlook. When my wife and I swim, I have no problem since she knows my secret and we've been married for 11 years. When we have friends over, it drives me nuts to wear a swimsuit in the pool. I know it's only for a few hours, but I badly want to just jump in clothed or have my wife push me in clothed (which she has done w/company over a few times) but they always look shocked when I don't get out for a long time. I'm always trying to think of things to say ("I'm on medication and can't be in the sun" which always leads to "Put on some sunscreen?") I also sometimes look for things like inflatable bumper boats, rafts, or other toys that keep you out of the water so you could easily get away with riding it clothed (and of course someone accidently tips you over!). I know it sounds like a lot of effort and money and it's easier to either just wear a swimsuit or just jump in and don't care what anyone thinks, but I'm an overly self conscious person and it's unfortunately not that easy! Just wearing jeans out in the back yard on a hot day is often enough to get weird looks from friends!
What kind of tactics, props, reasons to give, or other helpful advice are you aware of that could help me partake in my habit whether friends are over or not? Other than telling them the truth?!
Thanks all
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