Wetlook World Forum

Secondly, Steven nailed it when he said what I have said many times in recent years on this forum....i.e.

"I often wonder how Leon views wetlook now compared to when he started, or MK (or Erik or any of the mainstream producers). Like a chef whose asked to cook when he gets home? You can have too much of a good thing? "

Very true.....if you spend 24 years cooking for yourself in your own kitchen.....as I have done....pretty soon you become less interested in your own cooking...and you prefer to taste what other people are cookling instead. You become less interested in self indulgence and trying to please yourself, cos there are only so many ways to get a model wet and only so many kinds of outfits to use....so you soon get bored with staging things and controling the outcome yourself.....cos hiring models and directing them as per your own ideas, is a bit like gambling in a casino where you know what the outcome will be...cos you are controlling the black jack table and the roulette wheel. So...in my case I started out shooting my own fantasies.....but after about 5 years of that I have done everything I could think of........so I was like a dog chasing a car.....i.e. once I caught the car.....then I could not figure out what to do with it....ha ha. So I then began to grow more interested in what other wetlook producers were doing instead of anything I was directing.

Thirdly, the last subject that Frank raises.......is there such a creature on this earth as the self indulgent non commercial non appeasing heterosexual female wetloooker.......a female who is engaging in wetlook activities purely for her own indulgent reasons....and not for any other motives......which is what most male wetlook fans do......cos this would make for a great reality tv series....cos they have lots of reality shows that go in search of Bigfoot and the Loch Ness monster....and DIscovery Channel recently did a fun mockumentary about whether real Mermaids exists. Real wetlook females would rank right up thjere with Unicorns and the Tooth Fairy. I have been chatting with wetlook fans online since the Compuserve email days of 1988...and chatting with hundreds of models I have worked witth over the last 24 years, and have encountered lots of females and their views on wetlook, and here are my historical stats on females in the the wetlook world.....95% of the women I have encountered as models or wives of friends or customers fall into one of 3 categories

1) The Entrepreneurs, who work as models in the wetlook industty, or have their own websites, so their motives are purely commercial. These are great girls who always work very hard to put in good performances....but this is just "a job" and a great service they provide to the wetlook community. Wetlook to them is just like Horse Racing.....i.e. would anybody be interested in showing up at a horse race if they did not have any money or gambling allowed.....likewise....wetlook models and female website owners would lose all their interest if there was not a financial reason to attend those shoots.

2) The Appeasers or Accommodaters...i.e. these are the wives and girlfriends of wetlook fans....who are very tolerant and accommodate their man's interests and will do whatever they can to push his buttons and get him in the mood for sex. Wetlook is used as sexual foreplay. This is how my wife has been for 32 years with me....i.e. wetlook means nothing to her personally....but she knows I like it and she has always been very tolerant of my wetlook "hobbies".

3) The Abstainers.......I have encountered quite a few wives and girlfrends over the years....who would order my wetlook products merely as "gifts" for their hubby or boyfriend....cos they know hubby likes it....and they admit to me that they hate it........and I remember one lady paid me a back-handed compliment one time after she was ordering my wetlook media for her hubby.....and she said...."your media is really a blessing......cos I can just order this stuff from you to keep my hubby happy.....and then I do not have to do this wetlook crap for him myself any more"...ha ha.....

Thats the 99% of the females I have encountered over the last 24 years.....i.e. if you take away the money aspect and the husband or boyfriend aspect....I have never met any female that has ever wanted to do wetlook scenes on her own without money or a boyfriend being her motivations.

Now.....there are some rare exceptions I have encountered....but those were not heterosexual females....cos some lesbians and transgender people I encountered who were self indulgment wetlookers...but those folks were crossdressers or transgender people who were born male and had had a sex change operation to become a female, and some lesbian couples I met liked wetlook too. But a self indulgent heterosexual female wetlooker who is not motivated by commercial reasons or a husband or boyfriend......thats a "Unicorn" to me.

I am not saying that such a creature does not exist today.....cos we do know of one that once existed ....i.e. Wetmar..... she was really great and was totally into the subject matter for her own personal self indulgent reasons. I never met Wetmar but Graham and other producers have all said she was "the real deal"...but sadly she went the same way as the Tasmanian Tiger and became extinct.

I am not trying to pour cold water on this subject or bum people out, I am merely trying to point out that you will be wasting your time and money if you register at a dating website and think you can find some women who share the same passion for wetlook as you do. The best you can do in life is to find a very tolerant and accommodating partner. Women do have some fetish interests.....especially in the Bondage and S&M arena....but wetlook is not one of the fetishes that turn women on.

Women may get turned on at the site of Brad Pitt or David Beckham in a wet shirt.....but it is not the wet shirt that turns them on....it is who is wearing that shirt and whether they have 6 pack abs. The wet shirt means nothing to them.

Male wetlook fans can look at Bo Derek in a wet shirt or see thru dress and appreciate the wet garments....and they would "tune out" once Bo Derek took off her wet clothes and was naked.

Women would rather see David Beckham or Brad Pitt rip off their wet shirt asap and show their abs.

MK