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Subject: Re:Wetlook in family

Date: Thu 17/03/22 05:10:39 GMT

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I agree with you about food fights. Sploshing isn’t one of my turn-on items, although my very first sexual partner asked to be covered in whipped cream, so I indulged her wish. If my wife wants to do it, I’ll do it, but she never brought it up and I’m not interested enough to initiate it.

Food doesn’t get thrown out in my house unless it goes bad, but my wife and I are picky about not letting food spoil. Slime, oil, paint etc…, I could see that being fun. I’ve never tried any of those mediums with my wife. My iPhone is definitely something I don’t want to get destroyed. There might be people out there for whom the best part of wetlook is getting pushed in the water or pushing someone else in the water with their phones on them, but I’m not one of them. Phones in pockets just aren’t a part of wetlook for me. I’ve never even entertained the idea.

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Re:Wetlook in family

By Malvineous - mrnemesis@ntlworld.com Wed 16/03/22 09:44:11 GMT

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I am not alone in finding ripping distasteful, but it’s hard to gauge what percentage of people who like getting wet, also like getting messy with food, slime etc. (I never considered food fights or food mess to be an acceptable use of food. If you won’t eat it, let someone else do so. The same applies to anything else that one would destroy for pleasure.)

Considering how much smartphones cost, the idea of a society where they are so trivially destroyed by antics is something I can’t come to terms with. I’ve taken risks with my camera, but when I still carried a pocket computer, spontaneously getting wet, even such likes as a boat trip gone wrong, became a concern, especially as this was pre-iCloud and I could never get it to back up reliably.

Wetlook to me just can’t be at the top of priority list — compatible moral philosophy for one takes precedent. On the other hand, I’m increasingly inclined to believe that I am just a crank/nutter … I seldom reach a point of trusting anyone to the point of being open with them, and even then, my level of philosophical discussion always goes over their head. It wouldn’t be so bad if I didn’t also feel totally at odds with the industry I work in …

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By Parent - Wed 16/03/22 07:50:00 GMT

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The rule for our kids is “Don’t destroy other people’s stuff”. However, playing in mud destroys some clothes. We let our kids play in the mud. If it can’t be washed, we just throw it away. Usually it’s just socks we’ll toss in the garbage. It’s not a big deal. Most everything else can be washed.

My wife and I are lenient on some things but we’re also way more strict than most other parents about other things. I don’t want to make what I think were the mistakes my own parents made. “Don’t get your clothes wet” was one of the most important rules when I was growing up. As an adult, I think my grandma’s priorities were messed up. Getting wet clothes wasn’t the only trivial matter that was important to her.

When the kids aren’t around, my wife and I sometimes indulge in activities that result in the destruction of clothing. We absolutely don’t let the kids catch us playing with scissors, which is something they’re definitely not allowed to do. I never thought about destroying electronics for pleasure, but I may have lost my temper with an electronic that didn’t work. That wasn’t me at my best.

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By Malvineous - mrnemesis@ntlworld.com Tue 15/03/22 22:21:48 GMT

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Incidentally, what is your view on activities that result in damage to or destruction of property, such as clothes, handbag contents, electronics etc. — not just as an adult but as a parent?

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Re:Wetlook in family

By Parent - Tue 15/03/22 06:16:40 GMT

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In my own experience, wet clothing is a situational stimulus. My wife getting wet in her clothes is a huge turn on. My kids getting wet in their clothes is a neutral non-event to me. I don’t care if they get wet in their clothes. I don’t care if they don’t get wet in their clothes. I just don’t want to teach them that it’s a big deal or something special. My wife’s opinion, with which I fully agree, is that “Don’t get your clothes wet” is a stupid rule, so we don’t enforce it. However, we do have a rule about following other people’s rules when in their house or on their property, so if someone else has rules about to what to wear or what not to wear in their pool, then my kids will have to follow their rules.

Wet clothing is also a situational stimulus in other ways. Kids getting wet in their clothes is one non-event. Another situation where wet clothes isn’t a turn is a distress situation, such as a woman drowning or getting swept away in a flood. That’s not wetlook, that would be horror instead. It’s also situational with my self. At one time I was out-of-shape and overweight, and when I was, the feeling of wet clothes on myself was repulsive to me. I lost the excess weight, so now it once again feels good to hop in the hot tub fully clothed or jump in the pond fully clothed with my wife.

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By Malvineous - mrnemesis@ntlworld.com Mon 14/03/22 00:25:12 GMT

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Hm, I wouldn’t know from experience … wetlook is probably near the bottom of my compatibility list. Obviously I would be disappointed if I encountered someone who was physically repulsed by the feel of wet clothes (as has been the case before, twice) but it’s far less of a deal-breaker than a great many other things. I have yet to draw a concrete conclusion as to whether having children would be wise or not, because (notwithstanding the question of whether I would want to raise any children into the world I find myself in) the ultimate outcome of parenthood would depend hugely on who ends up being my offspring’s mother.

I can only say that I’ve passed the 40 mark and still expect to die single.

As for maxval’s claim about paedophilia: when you consider attraction to wet hair (regardless of swimwear), you end up facing some very strange questions about how the human brain is supposed to be wired up such that the same stimulus should be interpreted wildly differently depending on context. This is its own can of worms.

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By Parent - Sun 13/03/22 15:48:42 GMT

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Our next wedding anniversary will be our seventh and we still both love playing in the rain. That’s our favorite time to jump on the trampoline. We also have other traditions that involve getting wet such as doing the Polar Plunge every year. We also have our own Hot Tub Tuesdays. Every Tuesday night (really late after the kids are in bed) we get in our hot tub in the clothes we’re already wearing and have a chat or discussion. Traditions are important in relationships and we have many non-wetlook related traditions as well.

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By Malvineous - mrnemesis@ntlworld.com Sun 13/03/22 13:40:53 GMT

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Something I’ve noticed is that wetlook scenarios in film and television are often used in failure scenes: scenes where a happy situation turns into an angry or miserable situation. It’s almost as though they want to convey that getting wet with someone will only bring disputes or disappointment.

(I don’t believe that to be true: the entertainment industry thrives on writing conflict into all manner of situations where normal folk would in reality have a happy time.)

Even so, the idea of getting an unexpected soaking on the day that you propose (which in a TV show would inevitably be used to ruin the attempted proposal) has a Hollywood level of statistical improbability! Nothing like that ever happens in real life, only in the movies! If that was not a good omen for you both, I don’t know what is.

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By Parent - Sun 13/03/22 06:17:19 GMT

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Hide wet clothes? That would work with a normal patent, but as a kid, I wasn’t dealing with a normal parent. I lived with a mom who worked and a stay-at-home grandma who was anything but normal! When I came home from school, I made it past my grandma who wanted me to take my shoes off whenever I came home. A normal parent would want their kids to do that to help keep the floors in good shape. My anything-but-normal grandma wanted to do that so she could make sure my socks weren’t wet from jumping in a puddle.

One day, after a rainy day at school, I made it past her and I went straight to my room. I hid the wet socks in under the box spring of my bed and above the wires that hold up the bed. I thought they’d dry out by the next day. No, when I came home from school the next day, I was greeted by my grandma holding the wet socks I tried to hide from her. She grounded me for that.

I was 39 years old when I got married. A normal person wouldn’t care if their 39 year old grandson and his fiancé got their clothes wet, but then again, my grandma was anything but normal. Women love to tell stories about fun times they had in their relationships, and my wife is no different. The day I proposed to began as a sunny day, but when I was ready to pop the question, the heavens opened up and dumped a lot of rain. It was a deluge. We went back to our rental car and by the time we got to our car the water in the parking lot was more than ankle-deep. My fiancé was wearing a thin black dress, black pantyhose and black pumps that day and she looked great! We went back to the our hotel and got in the hot tub in the nice clothes we were wearing. Yes, she kept that black dress and her black tights on when she got in the hot tub to warm up.

My wife loves to tell that story, but my grandma didn’t love hearing that story as much as my wife loved telling it. My grandma had a complete meltdown over it and she absolutely hated my wife for the rest of her life over it and she let my wife know it every chance she had. She saw my choice of a wife who enjoys getting wet in her clothes as a personal attack.

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By Wetlooker2 - Sat 12/03/22 15:51:44 GMT

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When I was young I had a big fascination even at that time about wet clothes, but my mom dont let me do it.

So what to do? Do it! Hide my wet clothes!

I wish I was born in a family with parents who was a little more relaxed and dont care so much how I do thing.

If I like to go to beach and swimmingpool often, let them accept me to take a bath with my clothes on.

After I come home i can hang my clothes in the laundryroom and mom dont argue about it....

My mom even argue if I use a pair of cotton shorts in a little bathtub. But its shorts.

Im 37 now and mom never ask about if i still take a bath with clothes on.

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By Parent - Sat 12/03/22 04:00:42 GMT

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The only explanation that my kids will ever get is that their mom sunburns easily, which is true. We neither discourage nor encourage our kids from getting wet in their clothes. If they do, we don’t say anything about it. If they want to play in the rain in their regular clothes, that’s fine. If they want to put on their swimsuits before they play in the rain, that’s also fine. Unlike my own parents, I’m not turning it into something special by making a big deal, or any other deal about it. I’m here reading this forum because my own parents made a federal case out of getting wet clothes. I refuse to pass that hang-up or obsession on to the next generation.

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Wetlook in family

By Ane - farm7u@gmx.com Mon 07/03/22 17:56:52 GMT

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Hello, question for parents and so.

Do you hide your wetlook fun from your kids or no?

Do you allow/introduce them to bath with you in clothes?

I think it is a quite hard to hide it.

We decided to introduce our children to wet clothes and let them free.

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