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Message # 97522.7.1.2 Subject: Re:I've never had one Date: Wed 22/11/23 20:11:57 GMT Name: Thom |
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thanks for that tip CC!
I did similar. Ask what they find attractive or exciting, tell what you find exciting and -as you said- add that it migth soud a bit silly. I do add that it so much excites me. If she asks (and she well) what it is that turnes you on, my answer is that she has to experience it to understand. :-) |
In reply to Message (97522.7.1) Re:I've never had one
By CC - Tue 21/11/23 13:57:43 GMT So I had to figure out how to tell partners via trial and error, because everyone reacts differently. This is the explanation that always worked best for me (typically I would bring it up right after having sex or during intimate texting):
Me: that was good sex, but I’m wondering… do you have any fetishes or kinks? Something different you like that would make next time even more special for you? Her: [she either reveals her secret fetish or says no — but inevitably says, “what about you?” Me: Well, I do have one fetish, but it’s kind of silly. Her: just tell me, it’s fine. Me: well you like romcoms, right? [let’s be honest, what girl would say no?] Well you know how there’s often an intimate scene where the main couple goes swimming or takes a shower or stands in the rain fully clothed? I’ve always found that super sexy. I love being spontaneous like that, and there’s something about getting your clothes wet without a care in the world, just giving in to your feelings in the moment that’s really arousing for me. And obviously some clothes get see through and stick to you, showing the outline of your body… I really like that. That’s my fetish.
Tactful, doesnt come off too strong, and actually relatable for her, by tying it to something familiar (the romance movie scenes). That approach has ALWAYS worked for me. Good luck! |
In reply to Message (97522.7) I've never had one
By Poliut - Tue 21/11/23 04:54:17 GMT I've gotten close a couple of times, but never actually scored one. Now, though I'm wondering how I'll approach the subject in the event that I do, because it's something that'll have to come up eventually. |
In reply to Message (97522) Does anyone else practice wetlook with their partner?
By CC - Mon 20/11/23 15:01:53 GMT My wife has been a willing participant ever since we first started dating. Coincidentally she’s been swimming in clothes all her life because of very fair skin and a family history of skin cancer. So when I told her about my fetish she said she’d be happy to oblige since it wasn’t really out of the ordinary for her anyway. So now every time we go to the beach or pool I get my wetlook fix 😁 my favorite is when we go snorkeling on vacation, when she REALLY needs to cover up, and then I get to see her swim in a complete outfit. But in between she’ll also go in the bath or shower wearing clothes of my choosing. Every girl I dated before her thought it was weird, or I otherwise had to basically beg them to do it. But to have a partner who does it willingly - I think I’ve pretty much hit the jackpot!!
Anyone else indulge in wetlook with their partner? Do they do so willingly, or do they do it as a favor ? Just curious what everyone else’s experience has been
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